I’m bisexual, or the more complicated, biromantic asexual. It’s the latter part that confuses people the most. No sex? No attraction? No sex, but yes attraction. But how can you love somebody and not give them your body? I am capable of love and my body isn’t my sole worth or way to give love.
Every so often I’ll tell a man I’m bisexual and he’ll ask for a threesome. Instead of telling him that’s kind of biphobic, I tell him I’m ace and he calls me a bitch.
Then blocks me.
And next thing I am: banned from Tinder.
They’re loss, at least that’s what I tell myself, when I’m crying on a bathroom floor wondering why nobody will love me.